I’m not calling him a cheater just he tells me he only wants me n *** me n he’s a Puerto Rican

You’ve been talking to someone you knew was married (separated is not divorced). You knew he was willing to entertain intimacy and a relationship with someone outside of his marriage.

I wouldn’t be able to marry a person who was willing to be with me while still married. I’m SURE that it’s possible for people to find their person if they’re with someone else, but that’s pretty gross that he didn’t get divorced before starting anything with anyone else. And I wouldn’t be able to trust that he’d be faithful to me when he was talking to women and messing around while still married.

Okaaay so there’s already no trust or loyalty going into it. Im giving this ‘relationship‘ a 0/10 chance of working out in a healthy way lol

At the same time, if you dated all the girls, you will notice that the girls still love you and that you were still dating regardless on what happened after Valentines Day

a guy who will cheat with you will cheat on you. and no matter how you justify it, he cheated on his wife with you. agree with above, separated is not divorced and he was at the very least entertaining you two while still married. will also say from your OP it comes across that he recently got the divorce papers and you were having sex BEFORE that and discussing him being serious with you and making a family with you WHILE MARRIED. he „recently“ got the divorce papers to start the process (ie he’s still legally married) or did it just „recently“ finalize? sorry, your OP was a little confusing and I’m not sure where he’s at with the actual process

sometimes it can take years for a divorce to go through though, depending on where you live & the situation.

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