That being said, yeah I am pretty much in the Forever alone club right now kissbrides.com webbplats too, so I’m not judging. Just sharing my thoughts.

Vincs

I feel you. I’m 26, and well, I’ve had people interested in me, but not very many. I’ve never loved anyone that was obtainable for me either! Stupid crushes, honestly.

It is such a lonely and painful existence at times. To not have that person with you, there, physically. Especially since we are romantic types. I’d assume you love hugs. I do.

This is why I’m trying. At least.. to become more spiritual and work on myself. They say if you achieve spiritual enlightenment, or have a close relationship with God, then your carnal mind dies, and you achieve a spiritual mind.

Which the spiritual mind triumphs the carnal mind, because it is unconcerned of such „earthly“ matters. It cares about the whole, it loves unconditionally, it is no longer „worldly“, it has become only benevolent.

As I understand you, that’s exactly it! I do try to be more spiritual, more emotionally neutral, but that’s very difficult for an INFP.

My opinion is that INFPs can be prone to self-defeating attitudes when they are feeling that way. If they feel hopeless, they are prone to seeing the world as hopeless. ENFPs may be similar, and both types are also known for being nice and friendly, but some of this may be that we know what it’s like to hurt so we try not to hurt others most of the time.

Sometimes being optimistic and friendly and trying to see the best in things is hiding a more tragic attitude that we don’t want to show to others, but that can still affect our thinking and possibly be bad for us to keep inside and never examine. Celý příspěvek →